Sometimes the things you say to people has a lot of effect on them. I myself have said many wrong things in the past and have hurt the people that were close to me. First of all, I apologise for all those things which have hurt. I have made mistakes and well, I guess I’ll just have to learn it the hard way.
It is understandable if you want to get a certain message across to the person on the other side to understand how u feel inside. Whether its pain, fury, anger, sadness, happiness, excitement, etc. But while the message stands its truth, at the moment while it was being sent, if the message was said in a way that when it was being read, it was so heart-throbbing to read, then tempers will flare and it changes everything.
When a person is angry, many emotional things start coming out like candies spilling out from candy jars and things get more hurtful than it initially was. If the intention was for the better, at that point it may not have seemed like it, and the reader feels that it was nothing else other than insults, then rage multiplies, and then fued starts. Especially if the situation (relationship) is hanging by a thread, everything that is said will be so vunerable and is prone to be excruciating to read and what more comprehend when the wrong things are said at that very moment.
And at the very end, we forget what makes the fundamental part of a relationship. While presents are nice, there is only one thing that mattered the most, and that was what that was always lacking. Its not understanding, no. But something much simpler.
I believe that everyone in this world is made for one other person to call their soulmate and hopefully, spend their lives together. And while some quest to find this person fails, it’s alright, because life doesn’t always go your way. And you'll realize that some things are just not meant to be. The person who really loves you for who you are don’t give up so easily on you, so you just gotta find that one person that is willing to go to the end of the world with you. Through thick and thin, right?
As I read in a blog, every end brings a new beginning, no matter what kind. There’s always a good side in everything, eventhough you couldn't see it at first. But the fog clears, and you finally do.
LIFE is an ever-learning journey, so what matters is the experience gained. Therefore, for those whose love couldn’t endure, let’s just wish happiness to the ones who used to matter... And hope that no matter where life takes them, they will find happiness, and the very best of wishes from the heart goes with them too...
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